What do you think of when people say relationships? Of course, everyone, myself included, probably imagines relationships first. I also immediately imagine relationships, but not mainly because I have experienced wonderful relationships or family relationships, but mainly because I don\’t know any other relationships. Maybe you still have some work relationships. Let me tell you, if you have a really bad work relationship, it can be really, really sad. A lot of people don\’t last long in those jobs. I can honestly say that I\’ve had two such bad work relationships.
The company was very young, I had only joined about two years later, and there was already a group of young girls, and naturally, another interloper, another They didn\’t want to put a new girl in that job. There were eight young girls in all, most of them 30 years old. I was about 30 myself, and I really thought it was a perfect group. I wanted to have fun with them all, so I brought snacks and some non-alcoholic wine to drink after work. Of course, the girls did, but I could see them whispering about me behind my back and laughing at something. I let it go, thinking that since I was new here, the girls probably just wanted to see how I felt.
But after six months of this, I was worried. I really worried a lot. I absolutely hated that kind of working relationship, so I told my employer that I was leaving. Of course, I didn\’t tip them off, and I didn\’t tell them the real reason. I told them I had found another job. The employer was very surprised by that, but he must have suspected something when he saw these women. I don\’t think that was the only time a new employee quit. Our employer, our supervisor, probably knew that it was quite unprofessional.